It is truly a labor of love to help someone prepare a house to sell after many rich years of living. Coming full circle, there is an exquisite grace to witnessing the release of a life well lived, in a home so very well loved. How precious are the stories to be told, the memories to be shared. Every paper, every trinket, every piece of artwork – imbued with tales and smiles. All of one’s possessions, embodying moments in time, reflecting a life’s work and efforts. A reminder of a joke that was told, a feeling that was hurt, a savored dalliance, an accomplishment of career or parenting… fleeting now, but deeply embedded within.
All this stuff, the stuff of our lives. And as the old saying goes, ultimately, you can’t take it with you. And quite literally. These talismans are powerful, and plentiful. But they aren’t invited to come along. There is poignant simplicity, in preparing for a smaller home, a home where life will be easier. A life where the burdens of home will be taken away. There comes a time. It is peaceful, and well-deserved. I have deep respect for the acceptance of this friend, as she prepares to leave her beloved home. She is excited for the chapters that lie ahead, and I wish her freedom to travel, good company, and many carefree and fun days in her new community!